Why You Should Think Twice Before Hiring a Family Member as Your Wedding Photographer

The Emotional Cost of DIY Wedding Photography

It’s tempting to consider handing over the photography duties to a family member—especially if they have a decent camera and a good eye. However, while this might seem like a cost-effective solution, it comes with its own set of risks. The main concern is the potential for missed moments. Your family member, however well-intentioned, may not have the experience or the focus required to capture key moments like a seasoned professional would. Weddings are dynamic events with multiple things happening simultaneously, and capturing them effectively requires a level of professionalism and experience.

Haley’s First Look with her dad at The Crossroads Hotel in Kansas City

The Pressure on Personal Relationships

Asking a family member to photograph your wedding can place an unintended strain on your relationship, especially if the results don’t meet your expectations. Unlike a professional service provider, it’s harder to communicate dissatisfaction or specific demands to someone you love without potentially hurting feelings. Additionally, this role denies them the chance to fully participate and enjoy your special day as a guest, as they’ll be too busy looking for the next photo opportunity.

Brody’s first look at Taylar at their wedding at Mildale Farm in Edgerton, KS.

Quality and Consistency Matters

Professional wedding photographers bring more than just their cameras to a wedding. They bring a wealth of expertise in handling various lighting conditions, managing groups of people for portraits, and ensuring consistency across hundreds of photos. They’re also equipped with the necessary backup equipment to handle any unexpected technical glitches, something that a hobbyist family member might not consider. This level of preparation and professionalism is crucial in delivering a high-quality product that you’ll treasure for years.

Let Everyone Enjoy Your Celebration!

Perhaps the most compelling reason to hire a professional is so that everyone, including your family, can relax and be part of the celebration. Your wedding should be a time for making memories, not just capturing them. By hiring a professional, you ensure that all your loved ones are in front of the camera, celebrating with you, instead of working behind the scenes.

Sierra getting Jonathan to laugh during their Bridal Portraits

Choosing a professional wedding photographer over a family member is more than just a hiring decision—it’s a choice to invest in peace of mind, professional quality, and the overall enjoyment of your special day for everyone involved.

Your Photographer,

Matt

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